May 20th is momentous for me as well, as it's the day exh proposed ... 24 years ago. also the day I graduated from college, 26 years ago. also the day I graduated as a clinical herbalist ... 4 years ago.

So, I hear ya. really I do.

I also wonder if exh remembers when any of our special dates roll around. he was exceptional at remembering them all, i will give him credit for that.

enjoy your dessert sorta date! Salted caramel ice cream is my suggestion. Or tiramisu.

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver