This used to be easier - and a lot more fun, cont.

[DonH]

Well, it's been nearly two months since I last posted on my thread and do I have some huge updates to report! Wait until you here this!!! Um, yeah, not really. Pretty much nothing new here to report at all, other than perhaps some big struggles with my largest client. Too much to write though, but it's clearly been getting to me. Hopefully the changes I'm trying to affect will happen soon.

Ah, but it's May 20th. May 20, hmmmmm, why should I remember something about that date? Well, 17 years ago this very day, on a Saturday no less, I was married to ExW. Wow, how does the time go by so fast? 17 years ago already. My stepson turned 30 last weekend. I first met him when he was 7!

To be very honest, I don't at all think I would have remembered it was my anniversary had I not received a card from the local jeweler, still in business, that I purchased her ring at. They are still going strong with a bunch of locations all in this area, but the place we held the reception at was torn down a couple years ago. I still belong to the church we were married at. Anyhow, had that card not come, I usually remember a couple days later and go, "oh yeah, Saturday would have been X years." So it's not like I really give it any thought anymore these days. Wonder if ExW does?

I've actually been having fun with it today with friends - mostly due to how fast 17 years have gone by. Imagine if we were still married? How would life be different? Have to wonder. It's a very dreary day outside, cold, rain, overcast. Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Going out with a female friend tonight, sort of a date, sort of not - we are more friends than anything with a once and awhile benefit if the mood strikes. Then a grad party for my niece who just started college like months ago (in my head) but graduated last weekend as well. That happens on Sunday. WHERE DOES THE TIME GO!

So that's my update. Yeah, not much of an update, I know. That seems to be my life these days. No big high, no big lows.