Who's fault is this again? Can I forgive her?

[peacetoday]

Irish

I tend to think the MLCer follows the script of their parents
especially if parents did the same

unless they get serious help and stick to it
BUT
I think many of them get some help but can't break the MLC cycle

Because none of us have really experienced MLC ourselves, we can't get a real view of how hard is is on them and how incapable they are at recovering

Only time will tell if she will be able to get herself better
even slightly to create a "new" relationship with the girls
She seems to pop out often and she understands she misses them, but just as often she seems to slide back into replay with no real work done

Her words to the old friend just seem like defense mechanisms
and her blank stare is the MLCer state

We all are rooting for her-