Originally Posted By: Trees00
Thank you. I read suggested links and newcomer's posts before I signed up, and I'll be ordering the book today. I'll be reading the book in addition to..., which my counselor suggested I read and highlight and discuss with her.

Also, I've been leaving no trace as well. Thanks again! I'll be posting.


This is a great site that exists for a lousy but important reason.

You'll get good help here and I'll address your other questions about my own situation, later

Suffice to say if I knew then what I know now, and I were in your shoes, I'd take the hits now before more time had passed. I don't see any positives about your marriage and h that are not more than offset by serious negatives.

Including danger to the kids, which is as clear a deal breaker as any.

Life is shorter than we realize, as you know. (I'm also very sorry about your dad.) Are you close to your family?

Keep posting and keep getting T. Maybe updating your insurance will help defray the costs.



M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change