No she isn't, so keep that in focus. The lawyer's advice was sound, just document everything. Seeing lawyers does not mean seeking divorce, I've seen three and now my WH is starting to pursue me. But you can't work on your M or R while she is in an affair, and trust me, this woman is wayward right now. The fact that she is being so secretive shows she knows on some level that this illicit relationship is WRONG.


M 10yrs T 13yrs
BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW
BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off
Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce
April '17-Letting go
2018 D busted
DD8, DS6, DS3