Not so much worried about what's safest for him, as about what's safest for ME. If he leaves rehab and goes back out on the street smoking crack, I will NOT feel safe. The longer he stays in that rehab, the better the chance he will stay sober for a while and not be a threat. I'm waiting until his intensive program with psychiatrists and stuff starts st the beginning of June, as I think he will then have better support to get through me telling him it's all over. I'm being pretty much a gray rock but just haven't had the final talk yet because I'm waiting for that.