Alright everyone, just wondering how I should proceed from this point. Been doing well with my 180s and GAL. And my W has gone from demanding time alone to finding me and initiating conversations. And has shown signs of returning back to her old self.
Haven't really seen any signs of communication with OM. And my W is back to texting and emailing me at work or randomly throughout the day. Calling to talk, asking for advice. I'm back to being the first person she goes to for advice or whatever else. Just earlier she talked with me in the living room for two and half hours, while I listened. There has been no talk of BD in almost two months. But she hasn't mentioned wanting to work on the MR either.
So I'm wondering do I need to just stick with what I'm doing or try adding something else to the mix? Right now I feel like were great friends with benefits. Which has always been our foundation. We were good friends before we started dating. So it feels like were back at the beginning of our relationship. But I don't want to risk being stuck as friends either.