HaWho, thinking about you and your strength as my w is now setting up her own dorm room in our house.

Ginger, you have given me a lot to think about. I too am always super wary of saying anything negative about my w to my children no matter how weird it gets but that too has a cost.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving