WAW and the Big D

[Bdog37]

Hey Thornton,

Well right now I have the girls everyday except for 2 nights a week. What I believe happened was the MIL asked why she wasn't getting them more or why isn't she spending more time with them. Her only excuse was to blame it on me which is infuriating to hear... Especially considering that is so not the case!!

She continues to give up her time with them to be with the OM. Last night was another prime example. It was her scheduled time with the girls and she asked me to keep them. Of course I agreed and have agreed to all her days she continually asks for me to keep them.

Unfortunately, I hope the judge sees this and denies her any right to full custody. If anything, I should be granted full custody but I never thought I would legally have to go for it. I have always just believed that shared custody is in the best interest of our kids.

However, she continues to live a teenagers life full of partying and expects me to just roll over when she finally decides she wants to be a mother again?? She has every right to do what she wants on her own time, I could care less, but after 6 months of me being the sole parent in our children's lives she wants to try and take that from me....why?

She misses out on school activities for them, Girl Scouts for my oldest, play dates and birthdays...it just keeps going on and on. The oldest just asked me why mommy wasn't there at her school field trip the other day. I am sick and tired of making excuses for her, but I still just replied that she couldn't make it because I feel that I still need to shield them from the truth. That day she posted on FB a pic of her and OM "riding around the old neighborhood"....that's what was more important.

I am just so heartbroken to hear she wants to go for full custody. It is her taking away the last thing in this world that means anything to me and this woman has already taken enough. I know the laws for father's have gotten better, but it is still up to a judge in the long run. If a judge right now ruled against me and granted her full custody... I would be destroyed. I can't even think about it without tearing up.