You know I've heard that "I'm looking for a life partner" thing from women I know before, I wonder if guys read that somewhere as being a good let down?

25 I don't know the best way to do it, if you figure it out let me know. What I do know is that if you agree to a second, third, fourth date when there's no spark, then what could have been a 30 second unpleasant conversation has the potential to turn into an hour long tear-filled emotionally draining marathon to better to be polite early on!

Your GAL activities sound great, go for it!

I know *plenty* of women who are dating younger men, including a couple former DB'ers. One of them is in her late 40's and dating a 32 year old guy. Plenty of examples of that. My xW was 49 and dated a 35 year old -- it happens!

Acc

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015