I can't imagine following her to another state after she dumped me for the third time. In fact, that's kind of insulting to me. No thanks, I dont think I would ever be able to recover my self esteem after doing that.
Regarding GAL - yes, it's time I start pursuing that right away. I just bought a new truck and I've been looking at kayaks. I used to be an avid fisherman but I would like to have a fishing kayak so I can get out the good parts of the resevoirs I plan to fish.
Also looking at Mountain Bikes so I can drive up into the Rocky Mountains and find some cool trails.
I'm still struggling with social things though. I keep an eye on Meetup.com but there is literally nothing that appeals to me there. It's either quilting groups, or the bar-hopping scene, and even furries (google it if you've never heard of them).