Hi Thornton - interesting chat with her. Well, I guess she should think twice about pulling the plug on stuff and moving half way across the country then! But sometimes we need a hard knock or two to learn something important..

So - I'm going to dump you after a fight - arrange to move away - and hope you may follow me?

Does that appeal??

I would certainly take your time and I think your response sounded Good. Truly, I think last time you may have jumped on that..

As for the validating - it may be worth revisiting the validation cheat sheet and using some of the ones that feel most natural to you.

Often it is just enough to reflect back what someone is saying to you - or just say - I'm sorry you feel that way....difficult for us recovering fixers I know!!

So, your IC has set a GAL challenge too - what are you moving forward with there??

smile


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