And yes I agree, I'm spending no time with my wife, OM or OM's W, nor am I spending time with her family (extended or otherwise) or sharing my plans with them. I'm not moving out at all. There are a lot of people involved in this sitch, and while my wife blames me for every person involved the truth is that I'm not spreading the news to every person who will listen, but they are coming to me. I try to be judicious with the news I share, and I know the people that will tell her everything I say and the people who will be more discrete.
My wife is angry anyone (even my family) talks to me because she wants to keep this whole thing as hidden as possible.
