Opps, let me clarify. No, don't move out of your bedroom or home--everyone here makes it very clear that is a bad idea!

He has talked a lot about her family, extended family, and even spending time with OM and his W. A cousin even drove down and confronted his W. I think there are a lot of people involved in this sitch and talking. The more everyone talks, the more divisive this becomes for all.

I was suggesting that he only share his feelings and plans with a few safe people, and not this extended family, and especially not her family. I think all of that will create more chaos and eventually backfire. I also think he should not spend any time with her, OM, or OMs W.

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela