On way to DB Victory?

[LITB]

It appears to me by her actions of being mad, calling me names and now not contacting me, that she still has feelings for me. What sad is that it really is a sick game that people play to see how far they can go or how much they can get away with. well progress it seems. yes, NC for sure. No dinners, etc...stay tuned.

Sellout,
I don't think you see the error in your approach to DB'ing. You are so focused on your W and her ways, that you don't even realize the role that you continue to play.

Every minute spent focusing on your W/OM, is a minute wasted on not focusing on yourself. That is time that cannot be replaced. I suggest to invest all of your time on self improvement. Either you choose to lead the way by fixing yourself, or you choose to let her lead the way. Her way has kept you planted in the front seat of the emotional roller coaster, which is a clear sign that you are not detached.

Read back through your threads. You will see patterns of instability. I know the emotional roller coaster scks. Please don't skim through people's advice. Read it and try to understand how it can help you navigate through your sitch.

So dust yourself off and start focusing on yourself.
-GAL - fill your calendar with things to do for YOU.
-Work on Detachment - read about it, understand it and practice it (GAL is a key component to get there)
-Consistentency on your boundaries
-Read Sandi's rules and follow them

Here is a question for you. Describe what your ideal partner would be like. For example: communicative, humble, confident, considerate, etc.

Once you have described your ideal partner. Make it a goal to become that person.

Now I just gave you my time. I'm challenging you to do something with it.