So I got an email about setting up a phone interview today for a job. Phone interview went well and they are going to email a time for a formal interview next Wednesday. It's a micro QC job for a big company and the pay will be a lot more than I've been making with a lot more hours.
Feels pretty good because I need this to get everything else to fall into place. Knowing where and when I work allows me to schedule extracurricular activities that require commitment (athletic activities primarily). I'll also be able to figure out better where I'm moving to. Part of me hopes she sees that I've done all this and it shakes her up, but it's been the plan the whole time.
Knowing I can't contact her now that I've told her I'd give her space is actually making it slightly easier on me. I know that I've essentially given my word and to rebuild trust, I have to keep it. Maybe I'm twisting this but I'm viewing it as almost a 180, not that I was unreliable before but she's built that up in her head. Breaking her expectations of me while building up my life.
Together 7 years Married 3 Said she was taking long way home late January Left to get some space 2/19/17 BD 3/1/17 ILYB