Well one minor update. She finally sent the NC letter to the other man and I verified it's a valid email address. Not so ironically it is the same as the username for the Kik messenger app she used for awhile. Bingo---another dot connected, another lie revealed.

Well anyhow, it was a pretty poor NC letter but it did say what it needed to say so I will take that as a tiny shuffle in the right direction. I still have very little hope of things working out but I'll hang in there a bit longer to see where this scary adventure takes me.