[BrightFuture]

Hello, my fellow DBers! I’s been the longest I have not posted. I try to keep up with the threads, especially with the once that have been here for some time. I have to admit that I have not been reading the new once that much. I know all newcomers are in good hands here, with all the wisdom and support that this board has. I’m personally the one to benefit from all that wisdom and support, and I will always be grateful for that.

There are not much updates on my sitch, it is all pretty much all the same, slow motion limbo… It is pretty much the same “game”… I am nice, doing things for H. He is nice too. Once I start questioning myself if I’m doing too much for H and that I should stop it, he picks out of the hall and has some “business matters” that need to be addressed.

After the Thanksgiving party at my friend’s house at the vacation home, I was at another party for St. Patrick’s day at the same house, where H was also invited. There was some interesting conversation that I’ve learnt off, but I’m not going to bother anyone with it here.

For the once who are familiar with my “lipstick story”, it is solved now. H admitted that the lipstick shipment was a fraudulent thing on his bank account, and that he just played along with it to make me believe that it was a gift from him. Of course, I didn’t ask why he decided to play along. But, at least I know that my intuition was right. I always thought there was something weird with this “lipstick story”. Plus, to H’s credit, he had to come clean with it.

As for my personal life, I’ve been absolutely insanely busy at work (so it explains the lack of posts here, as I have no energy.) A few weeks ago I had to go to the East coast for a project go life. I logged 94 hours of work in 7 days. I’m still supporting that project. Even though it slowed down a bit, I still cannot make myself to relax. I need some serious vacation time. I have a few things in plans in works, including going to the vacation home (actually staying at our still mutual place, since my own condo is renting for the weekend .

And the biggest event that is happening in my life right now is my son’s graduation from college! Yes, long awaited! It is this weekend. H is flying in from the state where he works for the event. This is probably going to be the closest encounter with H, also for my family, who have not seen him for a long time. But, I could not care less about H… I’m just trying to make sure that I have everything worked out for my son’s graduation and the party. I’m so stressed about it right now. I want it to be perfect.