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My ex was a fat nazi too. Even when I was way underweight. Part of his OCD.

One of the things I like about Sociopathic Ex Boyfriend was that he embraced my curves, even when I started to gain weight due to some health issues. He insisted that he didn't care about my weight and that I still looked great. Sounds great, right? Nope, just a sociopath telling me what I wanted to hear. When he was high and raging during his drug relapse - the mask slipped and he called me fat.

Maybe I'll pick a chubby guy next time. Definitely no more OCD guys.
Note - I'm not happy about the recent weight gain myself. But prior to this - and throughout my marriage - I was never fat. Did I have curves? Yes - I'm built that way. Was I fat ? Not at all, only in the last two years ( and even now, most of the extra weight is in the right places).