I should clarify, I'm not making these actions to be vindictive, but actions have consequences, she was living a life where I was enabling her to do whatever she wanted with her uncle (she bought a $300 kayak and $50 fishing pole on my credit cards that she than told me I wasn't allowed to use) and she would leave without coordinating childcare with me at all (even when I already had plans, she would just race me from the house so I was stuck, because I'm not going to leave our child alone).
When she told me she would be sleeping somewhere else, but staying at our house during the day and living her same lifestyle, and then continued to lie to me (fishing trip that was supposed to be over at 10am she didn't return from until 3pm) and then she got angry with me when I observed her uncle and her acting inappropriately and called her out on it, I've really hit the end of my rope. If she is having an affair with him, I'm not going to finance it and let them continue it under my roof. If she isn't, than she needs to experience the loss of my support to see that she's in the wrong.
I spent our whole marriage spoiling her and I honestly feel like she thinks that will continue at the same time she says she hates me, never loved me and wants to leave.
