Yes I 100% agree. I'm working hard at becoming balanced, I have multiple people in my life who are aware of the situation who I talk to every day (some family, some not). I've read up on emotional affairs (your thread on the newcomer LBH really helped, my wife matches your description exactly).
My uncle's wife contacted me today, expressed concern about how my wife is with him, and they are going to be attending marriage counseling where she intends to bring this up. I will not mention that to my wife but I think that may help
