- We are still going to marriage counseling even though she says she is calling it on our marriage in the sessions. Is it just to placate me? If so we are just wasting money. - She still wears her wedding ring. - She knows she will need to get a full time job but has talked about getting a part time job for the summer as a farm hand so she can get into the nature and conservation field. It would make more sense for her to get a full time job and start saving money. And a full time job will dictate where she lives, and then where I live. - She expected me to do something special for her on Mother's Day and was upset when I did not. I got her a card from our son. I feel like her expectations here were ridiculous. - She tells me about her day and her friends, as if there is nothing major going between us.
As I said, everything is confusing me at this point.
Hi jason35,
Yes, this is all very confusing. It is easy to be conflicted when you have so many emotions and thoughts going through your head! Chances are good that she is confused too.
Michele has an excellent video regarding when marriage therapy is a bad idea. Please email me directly and I'll send you the link at no charge, of course.
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