Thank you for your wisdom. I appreciate you being straight forward and considerate at the same time. I was on another site's message board before this one and the responses were absurd. Answers ranged from calling me curse words to divorce her. That's it, nothing constructive. I will participate in the final resort technique before I call it quits, if that doesn't work, I can walk away saying I did every last thing in my power.


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old