And when I tell her that, I am sure she will say she isn't in an EA/PA. Do I admit to her then that I snooped her calls? Would that be a bad ting to admit? Or do I maybe ask to see her phone if she denies it and say nothing of the phone bill?

When we communicate it has gone better lately and I am just very leery of doing anything to cause a negative conversation.


Me: 45 yrs
W: 43 yrs
Together: 20 yrs
Married: 15 yrs
Son: 19 yrs
Daughter: 18 yrs
BD: Jan 2017