WW won't separate

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Well after 4 months of the A and being cavalier about it, my W broke down out of the blue yesterday sobbing. She told me she doesn't know what to do. Seems like she's afraid of being rejected by everyone if/when she is found out. Basically she's just hopeless. I didn't do much but listen and validate just a little. I mostly tried to follow the rule of if in doubt of what to say then say nothing. All I could say was she needs to go NC and that could be the start of seeing if we still have a chance.

Today is brutal hard for me though as now a crack has formed in her wall. All of my attraction to her has flooded back in. Clearly I need to keep on keeping on because whatever I had been doing was working. She's still a long way gone and there's a long way to go and I'm not getting my hopes up.

Anyone else who has been at this stage please hit me with advice.