Once more G, it's not about being "right" or "wrong", it's about being wise. No one likes to be "wrong" so when you view things in that context it makes looking at things honestly that much more difficult. It's about learning and growing from your experiences. What went right in this relationship and how did you make that happen? What might you have done differently? I would encourage you to look at how you throw your whole self into a relationship so readily (I know you see it as a virtue) because in my experience people who get everything handed to them on a platter don't value it much...they take it for granted. I think that's human nature. So moving slower might actually enhance the quality of your relationships. It's not about playing head games versus being real, it's about protecting yourself. Think about it.
