Ginger,

The depression will slowly fade and you will climb out of it. Sometimes in these situations I think we just need time. I think we need to just sit with the grief and sadness.

(I've been the same way recently, but I can feel it lifting. )

It is sad that this relationship did not work, because you really liked him and wanted it to. But he simply didn't. And maybe that's all there is to process. Maybe simplifying will make it easier?

Eventually you will find someone that you want a long term relationship with and that feels the same way. Until then, just know how incredibly beautiful, smart, spunky, caring, and insightful you are.


M: 42
H: 43
Twins age 5
WAH in summer