I do appreciate all the perspectives. I seriously don't think I did anything wrong or ignored anything this time. This was the last thing I expected. And you all know how honest I am with myself. I didn't ignore red flags. I analyzed the crap out of everything to make sure I wasn't. I give people the benefit of the doubt because we all have our shortcomings and demons. I watched them closely, to see how they affected us. And they didn't until the very end.
