I haven't closed any cards, I just asked for the credit cards (she still have the debit card). I'm the cardholder anyway, they aren't mutual accounts.
I have consulted with a lawyer already. I'm not trying to teach her a lesson, but I'm not a doormat anymore. Chuck had already questioned why she was moving out but the baby wasn't moving with her and said I should discuss a schedule with her where he was with her more.
As in the link above: " I can not recall a case where the H saved the M and really "got his W back" by supplicating, appeasing, and any doormat methods he mistakenly thought was DBing. That is not the way to get the respect from a WW. She is tough, and the H has to be tougher."
I am meeting with Chuck on Thursday and I feel comfortable with everything that has happened so far.
