Hi,

I've made a post recently about my story. I think the end is near but hoping to see if anyone had some success with the last resort techniques, I'm debating if I've had enough now to even try.

Short story is that wife left me for another man in october 2016. She said I didn't give her what she needed but still wanted to work things out. Come to find out several months later, she moved in with another man and has been seeing him 2 months prior to her leaving. She still says she loves me and can't choose, pretty obvious she chose him. She is the only real relationship I've ever had, about 7 years. I've had just a bunch of one nighters and week long girlfriends in the past but when I found her it was amazing, to this day it never even crossed my mind to betray her. With that being said I realize I also may be codependent because I believe I may never find this again. I've realized that love is awesome and those casual flings just brought my self esteem down.

Am I just being deliousanal? I think I am.

Last edited by Cadet; 05/16/17 05:52 PM. Reason: Combine posts

M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old