I was sure I had posted a congrats on the birth of your baby message to you before but if I didn't congrats!!! So lovely that you have one of each now, perfect!!
Your H does sound depressed and you are right to leave him to it. You have certainly got your hands full now with your two little ones!
Take care. X
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')