She started being treated for post partum depression last September. And is currently taking Lexapro. She had a breakdown where she talked to me about some of the issues she felt I needed to work on for our relationship. I started going to therapy and working on issues related to my anxiety. Things were bad and then they were getting better slowly. Until they weren't. I switched jobs in Feb and missed several sessions as a result. She said this was the reason for the separation. That I didn't communicate this to her, that I wasn't working on the right things in therapy, that our relationship wasn't an equal partnership. She is a very type A assertive person and jumps to take the lead, which I'm ok with, and i always thought she was until all of the sudden she wants me to be a different person in many ways. And I cannot argue that the ways in which she thinks I could improve myself are valid, I also think she had unreasonable expectations for how fast one can make significant changes. It's all very frustrating.
She says I make her always feel like the bad guy and as a result she feels narcissistic and doesn't feel good about herself as if she is emotionally abusive in our relationship.
