But bad traits, he is a self proclaimed alcoholic , lol
OK - if someone TELLS you they are an alcoholic, they ARE. HUGE RED FLAG! You have no idea how much he may have been drinking when he wasn't with you. This is NOT a statement that people who do not have a problem with alcohol make.
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he always joked that he has a black hole where his heart is supposed to be.
Again - HUGE RED FLAG!!!
Do you see how he was trying to tell you who he was and you kept rationalizing it away? When they tell you who they are, BELIEVE THEM!!!!