So she says she's gonna call a lawyer today, is mad that I took my credit cards away (I left her enough money for food and stuff for her and our son) and is mad that I dropped our son off with her (even though that's what she was doing with me). We are going to set up a schedule this afternoon, and even if she files for divorce she has to have a 90-day cooling off period and doesn't qualify for a no-fault divorce. I think a hard dose of reality and not having her cake and eating it to might shake her up a bit.
She's so angry right now that she can't see reason, but after a few days or weeks of this she will cool off and let's see what happens.