Might wait a day or two to reply
your mind will be clearer
think about this for a moment-

IN your Opinion-
and knowing what your XW Is currently capable of as she is today-

What do you think your XW needs to do to get the girls to be willing to talk to her?
Is it a possibility of this happening the way she is now?

Maybe take a few days to think about this
Talk to the girls if its appropriate

You always do a good job replying to her
kind, cordial, honest and Clear and to the point
if you think there is a chance of reconciliation for her and girls
maybe make a road map for her to follow-easy like for a child
thats your gift to her

If she can't follow through
she will have to wait until next time she checks in

In reality though, the mlc is never the same unless they get serious help
which she does not seem like she is doing-
and the relationship with her and the girls will be different and maybe a very distant disconnected relationship

I think her moving away to help the girls is also another MLC response
my xh did and said that as well


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