Might wait a day or two to reply your mind will be clearer think about this for a moment-
IN your Opinion- and knowing what your XW Is currently capable of as she is today-
What do you think your XW needs to do to get the girls to be willing to talk to her? Is it a possibility of this happening the way she is now?
Maybe take a few days to think about this Talk to the girls if its appropriate
You always do a good job replying to her kind, cordial, honest and Clear and to the point if you think there is a chance of reconciliation for her and girls maybe make a road map for her to follow-easy like for a child thats your gift to her
If she can't follow through she will have to wait until next time she checks in
In reality though, the mlc is never the same unless they get serious help which she does not seem like she is doing- and the relationship with her and the girls will be different and maybe a very distant disconnected relationship
I think her moving away to help the girls is also another MLC response my xh did and said that as well
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