What do you tell someone (like the JAG) when they inevitably ask if you're still married?
You tell them the truth. You are separated and it looks like you're getting divorced. If they aren't interested in dealing with that, then you have a pleasant evening and go your separate ways.
M:23 T:26 Me:53, Wife: 60 S:18 D:16 filed 7/16 W moved out 4/28/17