Blindsided and Lost

[Nate14]

It's been a while but I thought I would give an update as to how my situation is going. We finalized our legal separation and I moved out last September. The other man moved in pretty much the same day I moved out. we only communicate through text about the kids and I have a lot of anger these days. After 14 months I have pretty much lost hope that we will ever get back together. She was free to file the divorce as of March that was the one year waiting period. Here we are in May and I haven't heard or seen any papers for the divorce. Although I don't plan on proceeding with the divorce myself it will be up to her, not sure if it's because of finances or something else. I get the kids one week on one week off so that is good.

At this point I have no idea how to approach her since there is another man living in her house. I'm pretty much no contact except for when it comes to the kids. She seems to have gone no contact as well. After 14 months I have zero to little hope that things will ever be the same. I thought I would update my situation because so many are looking for answers early on as I was. Mine is not a situation that seems to have worked out in my favor at least for my marriage. Life looks different but that's OK. I had really thought that by this point she would've come to her senses. It looks as though she won't be looking in the rearview mirror.