Her father called today to talk. Said that the whole family (mother brother him) all went and made the 3.5 hour trip to see her for dinner on mothers day. Said she refused to talk about anything in her life. Essentially sat in silence while they made awkward conversation to try to draw her out. He was pretty upset about it. She really is pushing everyone in her life away right now. I feel like I need to treat her like an addict, addicted to avoiding. She's still working 80+ hours a week and I'm doing my best to NC. I'll talk to counselor tomorrow but it really feels like it's going to be a long time before she can even talk to anyone.
Next step is to get a decent job, looking for something in science now that I have the degree done. I've had this crappy job that gives unreliable low hours for a couple years now. I'm keeping on my life plan with or without her. Still, I'd much prefer she was here to enjoy it with me.
Together 7 years Married 3 Said she was taking long way home late January Left to get some space 2/19/17 BD 3/1/17 ILYB
