Struggling

[Jim1234]

OwnIt, my son's doing much better. Got a number of huge assignments completed, and his stress level plummeted. He got some late homework assignments done, and is doing much better in school and emotionally.

For the collective consciousness... If you're trying to have no contact, and go dark, how do you all handle social situations to which your spouse is also invited? Do I go dark by not showing up? Do I go and let her see how unaffected I am? Do I quietly slip away if she joins the two or four people I'm talking to?