I think your choice was a good one. You placed a healthy boundary (boundaries are for protecting yourself, not trying to control others) and now you must stick to it. You also made sure her final impression of you was a good one, keeping it light and happy reminds her of your good qualities. Truly she is a fool for leaving you.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3