Hi Sellout, shes just wondering why she doesnt have you wrapped around her finger. When she asks you "why are you ignoring me" you can just say you are focusing on you or i am learning to move forward.
I might even go as far as saying, "nothing much to talk about if you are still w OM .... or since we are separating" but only if you truly mean it and are headed that way.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.