After my wife and I finished our long 3-4 hour talk, she received a text from an older cousin who lives 8 hours away who she deeply respects and was actually at our wedding (no other members of her family were at the wedding due to drama at the time). He was near our home and wanted to stop by.
He came by, and, without being told and without knowing what was going on, asked her why she thought she wasn't happy anymore, and why she thought she could find something better. He told her "I was at your wedding to make sure you wanted to marry this guy, and I told you if you wanted out I'd take you home. So why are you now deciding you weren't?" She was flabbergasted and shocked. He then pulled me aside, gave me some advice, and told my wife to call him. All of this happened without anyone telling him what was going on.
I am a christian, and I feel this was God moving to bring in someone my wife respects to try to shake her out of her fog, and at the same time encourage me. She left after he did and I haven't talked to her since, but I could tell she was deeply shaken and didn't know what to think. I'm going to stand back and see what happens.
