Sorry things didn't work out with your guy friend Ginger - I agree with the other posters. Probably best to cut him lose, grieve and heal - move forward. I understand your desire to help - but I think his stuff is his to own - and his to sort out too..

Probably things are just a bit too raw for a friendship to be formed at this stage...

Hope you start to feel much better soon xx

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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus