Alright, thanks for the encouragement guys. I validated her, told her that I understand what she was saying, she knows I don't want a divorce. But overall it was a very good talk, she apologized for hurting me, she said she doesn't want me to hurt, but she said she's done not being happy so that I can be happy and that's why she's leaving. She's still here, playing with our son while I work, but she's leaving again tonight.
I'm just not going to initiate contact or ask her to do anything, just GAL.
