My wife came back over this morning, crawled into bed with me and slept until our son woke up. We then had a very long 3-4 hour conversation. I tried to be firm, I didn't cry, I did at one point ask her "Will you ever want to come back?" but other than that I was firm, strong, and nice. She reiterated that she never loved me, never felt attracted to me, never enjoyed having sex with me, and she doesn't want to come back. But then at the same time she said it's hard and she fights just coming back so everything would be easy.

How do you know if she is re-writing history, or if she really was faking it for 5 years?