I have not responded to him, mainly out of avoidance and taking this day by day.
My mother just called me, because he called her this morning. He was trying to get her to join his side, and get her to talk some sense into me.
He was trying to find out where I was living. He tried to present all of this (breakup, house sale) as something he'd thought through, but the very fact that he's so out of control right now betrays his public relations effort.
I really don't know what to say or do. I think he's in crisis (I've suspected an MLC), but maybe that's where he needs to be. My mother described his voice as shaky at times.
In the meantime, I am angry and frustrated. I am typing out a response to him that I won't send, just to get my feelings out.
I'm having a hard time not feeling bad for him, but I guess I need to work on my detachment.