Thanks guys, I didn't see my post for a few days. I thought maybe it was a bad post but its here now.
Thank you for the comments and especially all the resources. Im in a extremely vulnerable position right now but I am pro marriage. She finally confessed the whole thing last night. This guy has always liked her and she knew this, since 2013. I knew this but just based on his appearance and his lifestyle, I didn't think anything of it. When we would have marriage problems, she would share our details with him. I did not know this, so that was a huge problem. She was seeing him a few months before she moved out and he helped her moved out. She lived alone until January, that's when he moved in. We still talk everyday which is crazy so I ended that last night. I told her she has a month to move back in. I know divorce wont help my pain at the moment so I just plan to repursue my faith and finally heal.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
