Well folks, sad to report that her affair is still ongoing...on Mothers Day of all days. Wife was at yoga training and half way home from being at MIL with our kids...I saw her gps showed her van at a closed restaurant. Seems like she got out early. I drove there to find empty van. Waited around a bit and then called. Told me she was on way home but of course she wasn't. I called her out and her end went silent as soon as she figured out she was busted. I started driving home and actually passed his truck with her in it going other direction. Honked at them and kept going. Guessing she had been at his house.
Swapped a few texts. She apologized for deceiving me...fell on deaf ears. The ridiculous part is she mainly just kept asking how I knew where she was. I just kept my mouth shut.
She finally came home even after I told her I didn't want her here. Left blanket and her pillow on couch and she ended up sleeping with one of the boys.
How low can a person go to skip spending even a bit of time with her Mom and kids on Mother's Day to go spend time with the OM? Sickening.
On top of that she admits to lying but still won't fess up to a PA. I think she is afraid of putting it in writing because of fear of me using it in a custody battle but I'm not sure.
I'm drained, frustrated, and angry. Going to see if I can consult with a lawyer ASAP and also try to get her to leave. The sight of her makes me ill.
