Great advice, Sotto. I've already been telling myself this needs to happen in order for me to grow from it but it'sfinately not easy.
W is still talking to me, asking for hugs, and crying all the time.
^^^That really messes with me. It was a lot easier for me when she was spewing all the time. Now she has switched course and said she still loves me, is hopeful we can reconnect in the future, and telling me she has no idea how to let me go.
It's like the real W is back (But I know it's probably just a facade).
Unfortunately, this shift in W really has me spinning because I want to know why this is happening and what her motives are. When she cries, I fall for it every time and it softens my heart. But I've also learned that putting my guard down has burnt me several times.
