Thanks for a lovely post Cil xoxoxo always great to hear from you! I've always felt that your husband was still quite connected to you, and applaud your decision to do a different kind of 180.

The new place sounds lovely and the plans you have will make it yours. The tattoo is interesting. I'm too commitment phobic for a tat.

Re: organizer's interest, hmmm - I think you are right to keep it at bay since it's a good outlet for you.

off to work for me now, happy Monday xoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver